tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4177797611659983135.post8253011917043794046..comments2023-10-16T09:50:40.937-04:00Comments on Barbara V Evers: Myers Briggs: A Dilemma in Problem Solving ApproachesBarbara V. Evershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07350675979426950166noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4177797611659983135.post-61396041315839594012013-12-18T17:04:47.662-05:002013-12-18T17:04:47.662-05:00Valid points made by someone who approaches the si...Valid points made by someone who approaches the situation as a Thinker. Remember this is just an exercise to help people reveal their type; it's not Ana actual event. When we explore this dynamic in the training workshop, Thinkers give me very similar reasons and Feelers give very different solutions. It's how we're wired.Barbara V. Evershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07350675979426950166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4177797611659983135.post-40450121843704483772013-12-18T13:50:16.484-05:002013-12-18T13:50:16.484-05:00My big concern here is that by letting the mother ...My big concern here is that by letting the mother off the hook, I would be hurting the waitstaff. Many restaurants require the server to foot the bill if a customer leaves and even if, in this example, such a policy were not in place, the server is still losing out on tips due to a customer that ate at a restaurant knowing they couldn't pay. Responding sympathetically to the mother might be Sigilkittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08150157246986829744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4177797611659983135.post-82075897881006152292013-11-27T02:06:27.612-05:002013-11-27T02:06:27.612-05:00I'd give her a pass and tell her every Tuesday...I'd give her a pass and tell her every Tuesday night was on me.Sherry Boykinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00286895522275887197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4177797611659983135.post-46693136405670566742013-11-26T21:47:04.846-05:002013-11-26T21:47:04.846-05:00Carol, as Christians we find ourselves leaning tow...Carol, as Christians we find ourselves leaning towards compassion. Our MBTI type never changes but our environment can tweak it. Sounds like yours has.Barbara V. Evershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07350675979426950166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4177797611659983135.post-28431606969724636692013-11-26T21:36:02.281-05:002013-11-26T21:36:02.281-05:0030 years ago, I would have called the police and s...30 years ago, I would have called the police and social services. Today I would let her go, give her a little cash and tell her that if she came back to my restaurant, she'd have to pay before she ordered. If she's taking advantage of me, I can probably afford it this one time. If she's not, at least she knows where she stands with me. And, of course, I would tell her and her Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14122257337195088604noreply@blogger.com